You can’t plan your life on “what if’s“.
This is the first time in my life that I’m looking out and planning my life for me.
If you are in a committed relationship, there are always compromises. As it should be. I get that. But I have spent way too much of my life focusing on the what if’s. I’ll give you some examples so that you understand what I mean.
“I’d like to move from this side of the country to that side of the country. But what if I met someone here? Would I still move?”
“I’d like to own my own home so I can plan my retirement. But what if I met someone and wanted to start a relationship with them? Should I buy a house, being a single woman?”
It took me much too long to realize what I was doing. I’ve been single and independent almost a decade now. It has been a Huge adjustment for me. I never dreamed that I would be single for this long. I had Always been in a relationship and always thought I needed to be in one.
It dawned on me one day that I was putting my life on hold because, “what if“?
You can’t plan a life on “what if’s“!
Thanks for joining me on this journey! Penny ❤
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