Yesterday’s Post-Where Was My Head?


Ok, let’s see if I can clear a few things up.  Yesterday’s post got some reactions that were unexpected.  So I think I need to clarify where my head was when I posted those quotes.

So much of our lives is a choice.  Sure there are things that we cannot control in our lives.  The death of a loved one, illness, like cancer, etc., Acts of God, like flood, tornado, etc.  What I was referring to was Our Choices in life and being responsible for those choices.

Often WE CHOOSE to stay in a situation that is not good for us.  You will see people that complain about their life, but it was their CHOICE to be in that situation.

Example: You loan money to a relative or friend that does not pay you back.  You KNOW they will not pay you back.  But you do it anyway.  That was your choice.  If you don’t like the outcome, don’t do it again!

Here’s another example:  You’re in poor health, but your doctor assures you that you can turn it around if you watch this thing or that thing in your diet.  Or he recommends that you lose 10 lbs.  It’s Your Choice to follow that doctor’s advise or not.

Another:  You can’t pay the rent, or buy that next car that you need. Why?  Because of the choices you made with your money.  You spent it, ran up your credit card limits or drank it away.  These were YOUR choices.  But you cry and say “woe is me” if you can’t make your next rent payment.  Your situation is life is terrible because of your choices.

In all three of these examples, WHO was responsible?

Sure we all have our childish phase.  But there comes a point when you have to CHOOSE to grow up.  Or not.

So many times I’ve seen where someone will blame everyone around them for the situation they’ve gotten themselves into.  The sooner you realize that the choices you make in life determine your present and future happiness, well-being, and other things that effect you and your loved ones, the better.

Often, you can choose to be happy.  You can choose to be healthy.  It’s a choice, and that choice leads to consequences that are YOUR responsibility.

*I don’t usually post such opinionated things. So thank you for indulging me. 

(C) Copyright 2019 Penny Wilson

 

 

Responsible


“You are responsible for everything that happens to you.  You either cause it or allow it to happen.”

“It is a painful thing to look at the sorrows in your life and know that you yourself are the one responsible for them.”

“You and only you are responsible for your life choices and decisions.”

My Choice


Yesterday’s post was pretty negative and I’m sorry about that.  All is well my peeps, no worries.

Sometimes, the realization that WE choose our own destiny is a bit much to take.  Everything in our life, we are responsible for and have either created it or allowed it to happen.  

The day that I realized THAT, was quite profound for me.  You have to remember that I didn’t have a brain cell in my head until I was in my 30’s.  (none worth mentioning anyway) And the realization that I had the power to CHOOSE how I lived my life was like a slap in the face.

Crap!  You mean I have to be an adult and accept responsibility for my own life?  Well, shit!

Me!  My choice!  Not fate.  Not some Divine Force, was pushing me along life’s path to a specific conclusion.  I choose if I take the left fork or the right one.

I do believe in a Higher Power.  But I believe that WE have the choice in this life to decide our path.  Hopefully, whatever Higher Power there may be is there to guide us and give us strength.  Our future is not preordained.  At least I don’t believe it is.

My life is a good one.   I have an abundance of Blessings that I give thanks for.  My self-chosen path has brought me to this point in my life.  What to do with tomorrow?   We will see, my pretties.  We will see.  🙂

The Daffy Duck cartoon?  I just happen to have a soft spot for the hot head (I can relate) and wanted a reason to use this particular cartoon.